- Explore all your options. Years ago, if you were going to try online dating, you had limited choices. Today, because of increased popularity, these types of sites come in all shapes and sizes. You can join paying sites as well as free ones and even niche sites that cater to people with special interests. And don't forget about all the online dating sites especially for seniors.
- Make safety and security a priority. Before joining any site, learn as much as you can about the subject of Internet security. Also, before signing up for an online dating site, do your homework. Research the site and read their privacy policy as well as their terms and conditions. In short, make sure you're joining up with a reputable site that you can trust.
- Choose your username wisely. What do you want people to think about when they see your username? A username like "ConservativeClod" says one thing, while one like "Love'em&Leave'em" says something quite different-you get the point. Give it some thought, in other words.
- Choose your photograph wisely. What photograph of yourself do you want to show prospective partners? Again, as with the username you choose, make sure you're making the right impression. Ask yourself what you are trying to communicate with the image you select.
- Put some thought into your profile. Think carefully about what you want to say about yourself. Make a list of your interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes, etc. Don't tell too much, but not too little either. Strike a balance that lets others gain some insight into what makes you tick, but leaves them intrigued enough to want to know more. Also, make sure you pay attention to grammar and spelling-why make a bad impression when it's so easy not to-hint: use spellcheck!
No one can guarantee that you'll avoid all the pitfalls of online dating, but if you follow these common sense tips, it should go a lot smoother-good luck!
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